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I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT

Hi, dear reader
How are you today?
i hope the day is not too hard on you.
Today is one of those day's where i struggle to make it to the end of the day with a smile.
Am i alone in this world? the world of sad days and no excitement......i guess not.

Because i feel this way i just thought i should encourage someone else who's having a rough time like me.

 We all have plenty reasons why we slide into Sad and Unhappy moods but the power to get out lies within us.
Remembering past hurts and thinking of future hurts and failures keeps you negative and unhappy.
Allowing everything and anything to steal your joy.


Many times unhappiness starts when we start counting the blessings of others.
When that green skirt you once adored is so useless because your friend just recently bought a pink skirt.
You can never be truly happy if you don't accept and LOVE yourself more than the way you want others to love you.
I heard a preacher say; "if you knew all you know about yourself, will you Marry YOU", will you love your smelly foot, uneven skin tone, big nose, bow legs and curly hair?
The truth is that I'm a WORRIER.

i worry about what to wear tomorrow, what people will say if they see me like this or that, what i'll eat when i get home from work, how i'll fix school issues and so many things.
Like any other Melancholy it grows into anger.
But i can do something about it , i can think about the good times, the joyful moment or play a song.
You can also do something about how you feel.
You can maintain a happy and peaceful life, if you stop worrying and throw all fears aside.

Love all of you, the scars, the past, your family and talk about them to God and friends you trust.
Leave your room and meet new people, find new places. make connections with lively people.(like me, lol)

I've made plans to do the things i've been so afraid to do, i won't even think about what anyone will say.
i'll be back to tell you all about it.
For now, I LOVE YOU  and your the BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO THIS WORLD :)

Have you made plans for the week?? 
Share it with me so i can encourage you every day to accomplish them......drop your e-mail address too so we can talk.

For me, i'll be loving every bit of ME and sharing that sweet Love with you :)
Please lets support the Super Eagle's.........i really want them to win and i'll be watching the match too.

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25 comments

  1. i really needed this , you don't understand how much. Thanks for sharing'
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  2. Wow! Honestly i'm deeply touched.i'm guilty of this too,we must know that life is episodic and enjoy every passing moment while allowing God to be in charge.I pray the super eagles win.Thank you for sharing love

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  3. I really enjoyed this. Just lovely! I recently started doing some changes myself; I kept tossing and turning over what people would say. Also I've been listening to this motivational speaker by the name Les Brown. Great speaker I listen to him after my morning devotion and sometimes before bed

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  4. Hmmnnn I couldnt agree less... This line hit me: .......Many times unhappiness starts when we start counting the blessings of others.....

    Its funny how we often lose gratitude for where we are, and begin to focus on where we dream to be, often forgetting that where we are is where we dreamt to be just but yesterday. To say that I was motivated by this post is to say the least. I was inspired by it. :) Nice article Ugo. Thanks for inspiring me this Tuesday Morning. GOD Bless.

    About that yeye Temple Run Super Eagles match of last Night, Vex just dey catch me. Mchheeew. lol :)

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  5. Amen to that! True words spoken.
    Btw I like your blog and fashion sense, maybe wanna follow each other via GFC? Just let me know and I’ll follow right back.

    xx Lori
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  6. Amazing post! it really uplifted me. thanks so much.
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  7. This is so true. Sometimes it's so easy to get caught up in worrying about the future that we forget to be grateful for our present. Lovely post, just the pick me up I needed. I'm now following you on GFC, I'd love it if you could follow me on GFC too? http://louiseabenamensah.blogspot.co.uk/ xx

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  9. This was sooo perfect. I needed this.

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  10. Sigh. This is what I need, there's a storm raging in my heart, am going through a serious rough patch but hopefully I shall overcome and emerge unscathed.
    My week has almost ended but on Saturday am going to a make up fair. Amakahundeyin@gmail.com

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  12. It's the nature of man to be conscious of what people will say about his actions or outlook. But when you realize everybody else is insecured, you get the courage to be yourself regardless how 'small' you are.

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  13. Thanks for sharing, and also for encouraging people

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  14. Great post girl, its definitely something to think about, hmm I think I would marry me. Its important to love ourselves and stop comparing ourselves to others. Its awesome that you wrote this post to encourage someone else when you were feeling down.

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  15. Great post, the line "many times unhappiness starts when we start counting the blessings of others." is soo true. Thank you for sharing.

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  16. this is beautiful! thanks for sharing!

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  17. PERFECTION, I LOVE THIS POST! thanks for sharing hun, more posts please :D

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  19. I am a worrier too and my Mom seldom tell me don't kill yourself o but the truth is she's worries even more. I am moving from being a worrier to a warrior, counting my blessings and not others'
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  20. okay. Thanks for taking time to let me know about this...i'll love to connect with this.
    Thanks again

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  22. Yes, Yes, Yes! I Love this Post! Idk how I missed this post, but it hits Home with Everyone of if we're being completely Honest!

    Keep Preaching Ugo! Usually I don't worry but Recently with the police killing so many of our people here, those Precious girls kidnaped, Ebola and wars it has taken control of my thoughts! :(

    I Pray, but must focus Much More on my Faith! :)

    Thanks again Ugo! :) God Bless you! :) Have a Wonderful Day! =D

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  23. this post is so inspiring! thanks for sharing!

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