Hi friends it's time for serious talk......
Everyone of us will agree that between this age so many things had happened to us, things we are so proud of and some we don’t wish to ever remember in life….
Puberty happens, hormones rise and fall as they wish, leaving us moody or excited…..in trying to understand why those little breast are growing so big, hairs growing out of your armpit and pubic regions, you either seek knowledge from your parents, teachers or friends.
What ever information given, whether right or wrong builds the foundation of your life.
If your above 29, check your life what information did you receive when you were 16??? Did it affect your life as an adult now???
You were told it’s okay to have sex, after all your friends are doing it?? Abi??? Or you learnt how to get what you want in life, it does not matter how you get it??? Were you assured of how awesome you are, how talented and gifted you are and how great things are going to come out of your life???
It’s proven that your childhood will determine your adulthood. The quality of life you had as a child equals the quality of life you will have as adult.
SO WHO IS TO BLAME????
Let me hit you with this; Between the age 16-29 the quality of your life depends on YOU.
By this time you’re in secondary school and what you study in secondary school will determine what you study in the university……and no one else is in the right position to make the right choice for you.
When you get to the university, it’s all on you to get the best grades and leave school with good degree……..
Let me tell you the truth: SHIT WILL HAPPEN at this stage of your life……lot’s of it.
Suddenly you’ll realize how big you’ve become and your dreams for life will grow bigger and complicated…
Without the right information and mentality your list will be filled with stuffs like :
Get a girl friend/boyfriend
Get money, so you can finance an independent lifestyle
This is the point you get hooked………..you think life should fast forward to days of plenty and love.
THIS IS THE REALITY: those days of reality may never come when your stuck living your life blaming others, it will never come when all you do is try to be what you see others do.
Dear girl/boy get a life. Listen to your elder ones, add value to your life for very soon you won’t have time to learn, connect and grow.
Get up from that bed and be your own woman/man, understand that your contribution matters more than any other…..
You should be able to save money, manage and understand your emotions, listen to, understand and Love God with all your heart.
Never allow the bad past sink in, but be like a wet dog and shake it off you. Focus your energy on your goals in life. Keep your head up, know that NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING, so you have to get what you want.
Think on these things.