9.06.2014

CHIT-CHAT: What was he thinking or am i the one with a problem???

9.06.2014

Hello my fellow country people, today is a good day oh, Nigeria is playing a match in uj esuene stadium right here in calabar and your home girl is in Calabar……Mehn  I can’t wait to hear the scores, if naija scores one I’ll go to the stadium but if not I won’t go……..the last time I watched a match they broke my heart and made me cry so I  don’t want to cry again .lol.
Please Naija win and show us your 10 or 1 pack............hehehe
I pray we win sha…….well unto today’s gist.
Yesterday on my way home i got down from the taxi paid my bill and crossed to other side of the road, heading home to prepare dinner and go see a movie  when this foineeeeeeeee  bobo pulled up and said, hello lady excuse me please.
The first thing my eye caught was he’s fine car (sorry I don’t know the name of his car), clean and handsome face……On a Friday evening he wore a caftan *abi that’s what you guys call it* a ring on his last finger
*meaning he’s in love abi????? Ladies you know how you read signs to everything a guy wears…….
You see the problem is that I don’t usually do this kind of things oh but I walked up to him and said hi, how can I help you???
Bobo: hey pretty lady, how are you??
Me: I’m fine and you
Bobo: I just saw you and decided to be friends with you
Me: *a bit surprised* wow, oh okay, so you just stopped your car on this small street causing  traffic just to tell me that??? I thought you were lost or you were looking for someone.
Bobo: Oh well I just want to be your friend….or is it a bad thing??
Me: already tired of the gist and wishing that he will say please give me your number or can we see another day……something to save the awkward  chat we were already having…… I just told him you see fine boy I’m in haste to go prepare dinner and I have a movie to see……so???
Well the Bobo instead of picking the clue from there  got tired already and just said; I hope your not angry that I stopped you, I just wanted to be your friend…..and he drove off..
Mehn, it pained me oh that he stopped me just to be my friend with mouth……kai  I never see this kind thing before….So I started thinking, did I just loose a potential friend or a scam……………..
I’m so sure it’s scam, how did he want to be my friend  just like that??
Or was he looking for who to go and sell??
Or am I the one who is so pessimistic about guys driving in their car, talking to you from inside, and trying to be your friend with their mouth……..hahaha
And to spoil the whole thing, all this drama was happening right infront of my house, and as I was talking to him, I was just wishing my dad won’t drive by and see his beta pikin talking to a guy who is causing traffic infront of his house…….lol
So guys what is wrong with all of yáll and ladies what do think of all these kinda guys……I JUST HAD TO RANT…..cause it have tire me….lol
 Please share your thoughts with me in the comment box, i can't wait to read from you.
So Ladies for those of you planning to go for a wedding i have a tip for you; pack your hair in a bun 
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 and add a beaded jewelry to it for an extra princess, glamorous look,
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i love me, pretty, beautiful, wedding tips
 plaster a smile on your face and have fun......
Share this post if you like it:))) and tell me what you think.

57 comments:

  1. Hahaha.....Tibs died laughing.....Oh well...I would just like to believe that he misinterpreted your attitude....hehe


    Tibs Tells Tales

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  2. Your hair is beautiful! You have a nice smile.

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  3. Aww,sorry about the thing with the fine boy. Who does something like that? I can bet my money that he isn't the owner of that car.
    Nice hairstyle,you are BEAUTIFUL.
    www.ironyoflhurve.blogspot.com

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  4. I guess he just wanted to get you in the car and be friendly for a few minutes. I could be wrong:-)

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    1. He should have been clear with his intention:))))
      Thanks for sharing your thought.

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    2. Haba! Thats not fair nah, The nigga might have had good intents you know??

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  5. Loll @ 'beta pikin'.

    You look lovely in that updo.

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  6. Ah...you were even lucky he drove off, some will come down of the car and walk with you. I usually just walk away once i realize he wasn't stopping me for something serious. Good riddance jor, those types are not potential friends in my opinion. Great post dear!

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    1. i will walk very fast or ignore the guy unless he has something interesting to say...lol
      Tnx Aby for sharing your thought.

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  7. Yeah it's a mystery as to why a guy just can't simply walk up face to face, look us in the eye and say "Hi I would like to introduce my self" or "my name is ______ and if you would like, some day when you aren't busy, I would like to get to know you over a nice diner" ...

    You are Wise Ugo! ;) Idk anything about sports, but will keep my fingers crossed! *don't wish to jinx it*

    Hope you had a Wonderful time and Enjoyed the Movie! Take Care and Have an Awesome Day! =D

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    1. and those day must come fast....I had a wonderful time and thank you Cheri :)))
      and i really mean these words THANK YOU.

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  8. Hey Beautiful eagle, its nice reading your blog post, although am a first time reader here, i think you look really beautiful with those beads on your hair and the smile you plastered, have a nice day, and HAPPY SUNDAY to you.

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    1. aww Eedris thank you so much,your welcome to my blog.
      Much Love:)

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  9. He's not afar off...I am sure you will see him again...
    How was the Super Eagle's match?

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    1. Are you his brother or friend....lol
      if i do see him again i hope he'll have something else to say....lol
      the Match was Badddddddd...3-2 Congo-Nigeria. *sad face*

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  10. Wow! That was certainly a strange encounter. I would be a bit suspicious of his motives. I'm glad that he left without making a scene. You're hair is beautiful and you have such lovely skin!

    Oh, I nominated you for the Liebster Award Ugo. I love reading your blog! Here's the link if you want to play along: http://maurissaseesbeauty.blogspot.com/2014/09/LiebsterAward.html

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    1. I'm glad there was no scene too...
      Thank you Maurissa for the award.
      Kisses and Hugs:)

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    2. You see Ugo? we all love reading your Blog... berra not go on any Breaks anytime soon oh! Thou art warned. :)

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    3. Warning taken seriously *thanks Duru

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  11. Really? Just that?!! lol.. Even me I tire for him oh..
    I love the beads in the hair idea.. Thanks beta pikin :-) xx

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    1. just like that oh Ay.....
      thanks Beta sister.xoxo

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  12. lol @beta pikin - eyaaaa ndo nnem. - I think i love the idea of the hair in a bun with beads - Nice one!
    Have a beautiful week, dear

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  13. I honestly lost interest at the 'or is it a bad thing' part. Real men with real interest don't behave like that. The only thing he got right was the part about you bring easy on the eye. Lol!

    I am seriously jealous ing your eyebrow arch!

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    1. haha Salt:)
      i have a tutorial on how i groom my brows here you can check it out:)

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  14. loool i just died, the guy no try, him suppose ask fro number to meet again if him dey serious. Btw nice hair
    www.thatnigeriangirl.net

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  15. Sooooo Everyone here thinks My Niggaa Should have approached differently. Maybe he was looking for ghen ghen action **Winks? but also maybe he was Really drawn to you and looking for real friendship, i mean INTIMATE FRIENDSHIP? We never know yeah, but we guys get inspiration to chase beautiful ladies from different places. Some from Humor, some from Account balance, some from Good clothes, and some from cars... Maybe Ugo, just Maybe the guy wasn't man enough without the ride... But you know Bubba, we never really know. How art Thou Baby mi?

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    1. hahaha, those reasons are really funny...please guys just get man enough before you approach any gurl jor...
      I'm Happily fine:) lol.
      Thanks dear

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  16. hia! you be hot cake ooo...Alist he try small, there are worst guys with really awful lines lololol
    Nice concept the beads i mean
    fashionitazbybuiti.blogspot.com

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  17. Fyn geh... Ugo u forgot me Sha.
    www.makeupcubicle.blogspot.com

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  18. Looking good.
    So he just wanted to be ur friend nothing else, didn't even ask for no..how is the friendship going to be sailing now. Boys just act stranger and stranger erry day. Keep your eyes open he might soon show up. Lucky your dad didn't me you there
    http://divadiari.blogspot.com/

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  19. I'm coming to you from Wake Up Wednesday. I'm one of the Co-Hosts. You & your hair are gorgeous. I'm thinking he wanted to be more than friends but just didn't know how to come out and say it.

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    1. Wow, i'm so glad you visited...Thank you
      i hope he gets his groove and approach a lady better.

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  20. Hmmm.. that could be anything!! May be he was really interested or may be it was a spam. He'll be back if it was the first one. Otherwise, feel good that you were smart enough not to fall for his plan :)

    Thank you for linking up with us on Wake-Up Wednesdays. I am Tanya from Kreative Korner, a co-host for the party.
    http://tanyaanurag.blogspot.com/

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  21. Fine boy for nothing. Lol. If he was serious he would have collected your number. Make he go. Then again maybe he thought the Convo you guys were having was too awkward. Lol

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    1. LOL @ his thought....i think we need lessons on how to approach a lady/ how to respond to approach fro Men...lol
      *a blog post*

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  22. I will just comment on what I think by giving you a gist I had with my bestie..
    She called me after attending a programme and went "oh Frances, I really don't have to be rude to guys oh, not every guy wants to toast me and it doesn't hurt to be nice to someone, I can't imagine the number of friends i've lost cuz of my rudeness to some of them"

    Now, mr foine guy wasn't been a gentleman here and he may av been just joking and playing around but it still doesn't hurt to be nice to him..you never can tell who they will talk to later and who you will meet later, it doesn't hurt..

    Hope your dinner made sense sha? Lol

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    1. Your right tho, it doesn't hurt to be nice *lesson learnt*
      oh my dinner made so much sense*wink*

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  23. "I just saw you and decided to be friends with you".....that sort of talk don't wash with me! not even a "hello"...so he was kinda rude too.

    for what it's worth, if that guy was serious about getting to know you he would have asked for your number. this post made me chuckle though!

    www.thatgoodgirlchi.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. i think he was not really serious after all.:)

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  24. Lols, so funny. Found you at both sisieyemi and berrydakara and decided to pay a visit. Nice blog
    boredbettymusings.blogspot.ca

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    1. Welcome to my blog Chinda thank you for stopping by!
      I hope it's warm enough for you in here:)

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  25. LOL I think the guy is on a toasting spree! Someone must definitely fall for him. Nice experience BTW

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  26. If you ask me, na who I go ask :D

    Ugo is pretty #OkBye



    #Mαηηiε


    #Mαηηiε


    #Mαηηiε

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    1. oh my God, Mannie of TTT's family??
      Yayyyyy i'm so excited you took time to drop a comment:)
      awww now i'm blushing pink.
      the matter wey you see so e stay wey e start *singing in omawumi's voice*

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  27. Ugo the guy was whack, take it from me. he used the lamest pick up line in the Lexicon Websters' dictionary (toasters edition). And he wasn't really determined. Me i would have followed you into your house and ask your Dad to ask you to gimme your number...lol. good riddance to him. Car or no car.

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    1. Lolllllllll..... I love your confidence :p

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