1.07.2015

The Struggle of Living Alone....

1.07.2015
Hello mamcita’s and papcita’s *in Ernie's voice*….how are y├íll doing???  Happy new year wishes to everyone again………kisses hugs and kisses:)J
Okay people, I will be sharing my experience in Nassarawa with you incase you think of relocating to this place……..First of all, the dust this harmattan season does not have part 2………….na die here mehn…….my nose is constantly clogged, and hot food gets cold in 3 minutes, even my bread became strong when I removed it from the nylon…….
Lesson: get a house warmer, keep a flask of hottttttttttttt water nearby and drink it constantly to be warm and to keep your system warm.
So I’ve been using Vaseline Healthy Even tone and Neutrogena body oil before I got here..…..my skin has been glowing but here, my skin is dry, white and dusty.

I’m hairy so my legs turns  white like a sheep’s body….lol……. I even tried the Loc for my skin, that is Vaseline Healthy Even Tone + Neutrogena body oil + Shea Butter = dry, white skin…………lol so
 you see this place is really dry, cold and dusty.
I travel everyday oh………..my ppa(primary place of assignment) is far from the town, so I fly okada to that place everyday…….mehn it’s not fun sha…
So watch for the foinnnneeeeee gulr that kits up with socks, head warmer,shades and gloves  flying okada on the highway, thats your home girl..
I even dress like ninja’s,…….. lol………… you see the dust is too much and it now lives in the air…….hahahaha  and I have to cover up my nose so I won’t have dry throat or sore throat……

So people of God, this is part 1 of the gist sha…..Starting life on your own for the first time is not fun oh…….lets give three kposa;s for every one that has left his or her parents house and decided to start life all alone…….i feel what you’ve felt, and the same way you thrived and succeeded I will too…..i know it say Amen for me brethren…………….AMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEENNNNNNNN.

Lmao…………..okay  over to you……how do you survive living alone??? Share your thoughts!
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH:)



35 comments:

  1. i will give anything to live alone. But i hope u survive there sha lool
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  2. Hmmm, this weather sounds like a very serious matter. This experience will allow you to appreciate your family ties even more and perhaps bring you closer.

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    1. my dear, your right........now i appreciate my parents for always making sure that what i need is available.

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  3. lol @ "vaseline +body oil+shea butter=dry skin". I really believe you when you say the struggle is real. hahahah
    This is an adventure you can always look back at and laugh about.

    Awaiting part 2......

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    1. hahahaha, i look forward to that day.............tighten your seat belt for more...lol

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  4. Living a lone for me was quite fun. So much independence and responsibility. The only thing was I missed my family and hated cooking most times.

    Princess Audu

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    1. lol........i love cooking now because i can try different recipes....i feel you on the responsibility and independence.....it's oyo(on your own) in all it's meaning.

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  5. Doh otondo
    I use St Ives shea butter and oatmeal and so far it's been working. I'm sure the cold there is not up to that of sokoto oh!
    Just wear thick clothing and apply robb under your nose and don't forget to take fluids.

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    1. ah, i find strength to move on when i think of you.....i'll try these tips and see how it works:)

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  6. Oh Ugo I feel for you! I lived in the mountains of VA! A cool to cold climate area! Just looked and it's -0 there now o_O I moved to So Cal (southern California) halfway between Los Angeles & Palm Springs! Inland Empire is in the middle of the desert cool at night, Hot during the day and yes Dusty! But I'm Thrilled not be Freezing! ;)

    My most Difficult adjustment was Responsibility! My parents raised me well, but when I had to make ends meet on my modest income ... I thought about the Sacrifices and Hardships they made to Provide for me! Doing all the "Grownup" things my Mommy and Daddy did was the Toughest part! But looking back Faith in God and Knowing He Prepares us with every step our lives will take is my Comfort! My Daddy passed before my 18th birthday and it's 11 days until the first anniversary of my Mommy passing 1/19/14.

    Knowing they are Perfect now is a Real Blessing! I know your Faith is Strong Ugo! God will see you through this time and is Preparing you for what He has Planned for you my Beautiful Sis! :)

    As for dry skin ... drink plenty of water and experiment with oils and lotions because what works wonders for me may be disastrous for you ... baby oil + Nivea ;)

    Be Safe, Take Care and Have a Beautiful Day Sis! Love ya Peace & Grace =D

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    1. i'm so sorry for your loss sweetheart.......through your pain, you've made me strong with your words..
      God bless your heart dear:)
      xxooxoooooxxxxx

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  7. Seems you are not enjoying the weather at all - ndo my dear. Living away from home for the very first time isn't easy but you will survive. You might feel home sick for the first few weeks but after a while, you will survive. It helps to make reliable friends and to explore the place. All the best!

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  8. Grrrr....I missed this post...I think I need to holla at you in bit...I have missed hearing from you...

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    1. yayyyyyyyyyyyy Mami, please do i miss your voice too

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  9. I lived alone for about 6years was quite fun and also thought me a lot about independence. Don't worry you'll soon start enjoying it. Pele dear

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  10. Awwww, sorry dear. Make sure you try to keep warm and drink lots of pepper soup and tea.

    I never got to live alone... one of my big regrets. Savor it! Enjoy it!

    Berry Dakara Blog

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    1. The cold has rolled away and heat has taken over.....i'll make sure i enjoy this time of my life:)
      xx

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  11. finally I can post a comment.












    #Mannie

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    1. Thank God, i'm always pleased to read your comment.
      xx

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  12. Otondo....hahaha. you will survive...that I know swits. Pele

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  13. Pele. At least, you have Internet. In my days, there was nothing like that.

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  14. awww.sorry all the way to nassarawa?..well! ull be tougher..stay safe
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  15. Hello, Eagle Baby, Am still my momma's bouy oooo, but am going to start living alone soon, hope u gonna gimme tips on how your survived it?

    Nice. Post, Thanks & GodBless!

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    1. awwww, i'll definitely share tips, just be a member of the blog for updates.
      Welcome to my blog
      xx

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  16. I never got to live alone,enjoy this season of life and get all you can out of it.Sorry about the bad weather?

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  17. I never got to live alone,enjoy this season of life and get all you can out of it.Sorry about the bad weather?

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