Hello my fellow
country people, today is a good day oh, Nigeria is playing a match in uj esuene
stadium right here in calabar and your home girl is in Calabar……Mehn I can’t wait to hear the scores, if naija
scores one I’ll go to the stadium but if not I won’t go……..the last time I
watched a match they broke my heart and made me cry so I don’t want to cry again .lol.
Please Naija win and show us your 10 or 1 pack............hehehe |
I pray we win
sha…….well unto today’s gist.
Yesterday on my way home i got down from the
taxi paid my bill and crossed to other side of the road, heading home to
prepare dinner and go see a movie when
this foineeeeeeeee bobo pulled up and
said, hello lady excuse me please.
The first thing my eye
caught was he’s fine car (sorry I don’t know the name of his car), clean and
handsome face……On a Friday evening he wore a caftan *abi that’s what you guys
call it* a ring on his last finger
*meaning he’s in love abi????? Ladies you
know how you read signs to everything a guy wears…….
You see the problem is
that I don’t usually do this kind of things oh but I walked up to him and said
hi, how can I help you???
Bobo: hey pretty lady,
how are you??
Me: I’m fine and you
Bobo: I just saw you
and decided to be friends with you
Me: *a bit surprised*
wow, oh okay, so you just stopped your car on this small street causing traffic just to tell me that??? I thought you
were lost or you were looking for someone.
Bobo: Oh well I just
want to be your friend….or is it a bad thing??
Me: already tired of
the gist and wishing that he will say please give me your number or can we see
another day……something to save the awkward
chat we were already having…… I just told him you see fine boy I’m in
haste to go prepare dinner and I have a movie to see……so???
Well the Bobo instead
of picking the clue from there got tired
already and just said; I hope your not angry that I stopped you, I just wanted
to be your friend…..and he drove off..
Mehn, it pained me oh
that he stopped me just to be my friend with mouth……kai I never see this kind thing before….So I
started thinking, did I just loose a potential friend or a scam……………..
I’m so sure it’s scam,
how did he want to be my friend just
like that??
Or was he looking for
who to go and sell??
Or am I the one who is
so pessimistic about guys driving in their car, talking to you from inside, and
trying to be your friend with their mouth……..hahaha
And to spoil the whole
thing, all this drama was happening right infront of my house, and as I was
talking to him, I was just wishing my dad won’t drive by and see his beta pikin
talking to a guy who is causing traffic infront of his house…….lol
So guys what is wrong
with all of yáll and ladies what do think of all these kinda guys……I JUST HAD
TO RANT…..cause it have tire me….lol
Please share your thoughts with me in the comment box, i can't wait to read from you.
So Ladies for those of you planning to go for a wedding i have a tip for you; pack your hair in a bun
and add a beaded jewelry to it for an extra princess, glamorous look,
plaster a smile on your face and have fun......
Share this post if you like it:))) and tell me what you think.
Hahaha.....Tibs died laughing.....Oh well...I would just like to believe that he misinterpreted your attitude....hehe
ReplyDeleteTibs Tells Tales
oh well, maybe..... lol
DeleteYour hair is beautiful! You have a nice smile.
ReplyDeleteThank you Ma'am:)
DeleteAww,sorry about the thing with the fine boy. Who does something like that? I can bet my money that he isn't the owner of that car.
ReplyDeleteNice hairstyle,you are BEAUTIFUL.
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hahahahaha*at the bet*
DeleteThank you Ronii
I guess he just wanted to get you in the car and be friendly for a few minutes. I could be wrong:-)
ReplyDeleteHe should have been clear with his intention:))))
DeleteThanks for sharing your thought.
Haba! Thats not fair nah, The nigga might have had good intents you know??
DeleteLoll @ 'beta pikin'.
ReplyDeleteYou look lovely in that updo.
yep:)
DeleteThanks Porsh
Ah...you were even lucky he drove off, some will come down of the car and walk with you. I usually just walk away once i realize he wasn't stopping me for something serious. Good riddance jor, those types are not potential friends in my opinion. Great post dear!
ReplyDeletei will walk very fast or ignore the guy unless he has something interesting to say...lol
DeleteTnx Aby for sharing your thought.
Yeah it's a mystery as to why a guy just can't simply walk up face to face, look us in the eye and say "Hi I would like to introduce my self" or "my name is ______ and if you would like, some day when you aren't busy, I would like to get to know you over a nice diner" ...
ReplyDeleteYou are Wise Ugo! ;) Idk anything about sports, but will keep my fingers crossed! *don't wish to jinx it*
Hope you had a Wonderful time and Enjoyed the Movie! Take Care and Have an Awesome Day! =D
and those day must come fast....I had a wonderful time and thank you Cheri :)))
Deleteand i really mean these words THANK YOU.
Hey Beautiful eagle, its nice reading your blog post, although am a first time reader here, i think you look really beautiful with those beads on your hair and the smile you plastered, have a nice day, and HAPPY SUNDAY to you.
ReplyDeleteaww Eedris thank you so much,your welcome to my blog.
DeleteMuch Love:)
He's not afar off...I am sure you will see him again...
ReplyDeleteHow was the Super Eagle's match?
Are you his brother or friend....lol
Deleteif i do see him again i hope he'll have something else to say....lol
the Match was Badddddddd...3-2 Congo-Nigeria. *sad face*
Wow! That was certainly a strange encounter. I would be a bit suspicious of his motives. I'm glad that he left without making a scene. You're hair is beautiful and you have such lovely skin!
ReplyDeleteOh, I nominated you for the Liebster Award Ugo. I love reading your blog! Here's the link if you want to play along: http://maurissaseesbeauty.blogspot.com/2014/09/LiebsterAward.html
I'm glad there was no scene too...
DeleteThank you Maurissa for the award.
Kisses and Hugs:)
You see Ugo? we all love reading your Blog... berra not go on any Breaks anytime soon oh! Thou art warned. :)
DeleteWarning taken seriously *thanks Duru
DeleteReally? Just that?!! lol.. Even me I tire for him oh..
ReplyDeleteI love the beads in the hair idea.. Thanks beta pikin :-) xx
just like that oh Ay.....
Deletethanks Beta sister.xoxo
lol @beta pikin - eyaaaa ndo nnem. - I think i love the idea of the hair in a bun with beads - Nice one!
ReplyDeleteHave a beautiful week, dear
thank you Obi :)
DeleteI honestly lost interest at the 'or is it a bad thing' part. Real men with real interest don't behave like that. The only thing he got right was the part about you bring easy on the eye. Lol!
ReplyDeleteI am seriously jealous ing your eyebrow arch!
haha Salt:)
Deletei have a tutorial on how i groom my brows here you can check it out:)
loool i just died, the guy no try, him suppose ask fro number to meet again if him dey serious. Btw nice hair
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abi????
DeleteThanks Chidinma
Sooooo Everyone here thinks My Niggaa Should have approached differently. Maybe he was looking for ghen ghen action **Winks? but also maybe he was Really drawn to you and looking for real friendship, i mean INTIMATE FRIENDSHIP? We never know yeah, but we guys get inspiration to chase beautiful ladies from different places. Some from Humor, some from Account balance, some from Good clothes, and some from cars... Maybe Ugo, just Maybe the guy wasn't man enough without the ride... But you know Bubba, we never really know. How art Thou Baby mi?
ReplyDeletehahaha, those reasons are really funny...please guys just get man enough before you approach any gurl jor...
DeleteI'm Happily fine:) lol.
Thanks dear
hia! you be hot cake ooo...Alist he try small, there are worst guys with really awful lines lololol
ReplyDeleteNice concept the beads i mean
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it's hot akara.....lol
DeleteThanks Buiti
Fyn geh... Ugo u forgot me Sha.
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I'm sorry Cyndy.
DeleteHow are you???
Looking good.
ReplyDeleteSo he just wanted to be ur friend nothing else, didn't even ask for no..how is the friendship going to be sailing now. Boys just act stranger and stranger erry day. Keep your eyes open he might soon show up. Lucky your dad didn't me you there
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lol...Tnx Sogie
DeleteI'm coming to you from Wake Up Wednesday. I'm one of the Co-Hosts. You & your hair are gorgeous. I'm thinking he wanted to be more than friends but just didn't know how to come out and say it.
ReplyDeleteWow, i'm so glad you visited...Thank you
Deletei hope he gets his groove and approach a lady better.
Hmmm.. that could be anything!! May be he was really interested or may be it was a spam. He'll be back if it was the first one. Otherwise, feel good that you were smart enough not to fall for his plan :)
ReplyDeleteThank you for linking up with us on Wake-Up Wednesdays. I am Tanya from Kreative Korner, a co-host for the party.
http://tanyaanurag.blogspot.com/
Thanks Tanya:)))
DeleteFine boy for nothing. Lol. If he was serious he would have collected your number. Make he go. Then again maybe he thought the Convo you guys were having was too awkward. Lol
ReplyDeleteLOL @ his thought....i think we need lessons on how to approach a lady/ how to respond to approach fro Men...lol
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I will just comment on what I think by giving you a gist I had with my bestie..
ReplyDeleteShe called me after attending a programme and went "oh Frances, I really don't have to be rude to guys oh, not every guy wants to toast me and it doesn't hurt to be nice to someone, I can't imagine the number of friends i've lost cuz of my rudeness to some of them"
Now, mr foine guy wasn't been a gentleman here and he may av been just joking and playing around but it still doesn't hurt to be nice to him..you never can tell who they will talk to later and who you will meet later, it doesn't hurt..
Hope your dinner made sense sha? Lol
Your right tho, it doesn't hurt to be nice *lesson learnt*
Deleteoh my dinner made so much sense*wink*
"I just saw you and decided to be friends with you".....that sort of talk don't wash with me! not even a "hello"...so he was kinda rude too.
ReplyDeletefor what it's worth, if that guy was serious about getting to know you he would have asked for your number. this post made me chuckle though!
www.thatgoodgirlchi.blogspot.co.uk
i think he was not really serious after all.:)
DeleteLols, so funny. Found you at both sisieyemi and berrydakara and decided to pay a visit. Nice blog
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Welcome to my blog Chinda thank you for stopping by!
DeleteI hope it's warm enough for you in here:)
LOL I think the guy is on a toasting spree! Someone must definitely fall for him. Nice experience BTW
ReplyDeleteLmao :)
DeleteIf you ask me, na who I go ask :D
ReplyDeleteUgo is pretty #OkBye
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oh my God, Mannie of TTT's family??
DeleteYayyyyy i'm so excited you took time to drop a comment:)
awww now i'm blushing pink.
the matter wey you see so e stay wey e start *singing in omawumi's voice*
Ugo the guy was whack, take it from me. he used the lamest pick up line in the Lexicon Websters' dictionary (toasters edition). And he wasn't really determined. Me i would have followed you into your house and ask your Dad to ask you to gimme your number...lol. good riddance to him. Car or no car.
ReplyDeleteLolllllllll..... I love your confidence :p
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